my thoughts on the article

i can relate to this article, as most of my experience with bondage and all is online. i have had a few experiences with light bondage and i did enjoy it. It is the control that i enjoy, that i need. i am looking forward to more real experiences. Unlike the guy in the article i do know that online is a lot different then real, and yes it is safer. Online, you do not actually feel the bondage. But it can be just as deep if the words are taken seriously. And even online, if one true enough will not just poof from a room in a tough situation. i have always had issues with using the safe word and just leaving during a scene or whatever. Always felt i took it more seriously then others, who were just out to take advantage of who i was and what i did. But it is who i am, inside. Anyway, i am not sure of my tolerance level in the real world on bondage and pain, as i have not really had much experience with that. As i said though, i did enjoy the times i was helpless in restraints. And the control i felt from the Other, just flowed naturally through my veins. i will try anything at least once if it was to please You. If i did not feel comfortable with it, i will do it then ask to discuss it. ~Smiles~