Being Owned to me, means i feel cared for, respected, and loved. It creates a sense of security and contentment. Being Owned allows me to journey into my submission the proper way. And during the journey i can learn to face some of the scariest things that i have in my closet because being Owned allows me to open my body and mind to the deepest of vulnerabilities. Teaches me to trust on deeper levels. i feel safe and feel as if i have a purpose.
i have been asked, i can not even count how many times, how can i be so TPE. How can i give complete control over just like that. There are quite a few answers i can give to answer that question. But the main answer i believe would be the feeling it gives me to be controlled. To have those decisions i have trouble making, made for me. Without the control, i feel lost, confused, and get very unfocused . i have the heart and desire to please. i have found that being un-owned, i get taken advantage of because i am so TPE. Or even some Owners tend to do that as well, so it does take a lot of trust to put my life in the hands of Another. But once that trust is in place, i feel so content. It is sometimes hard for me to stay focused still, but if things are handled correctly on my part, i will bounce back.
brenda, gosh darn it all I love you, woman. your heart is so tender and big... you're one in a million and so worth more than you ever give yourself credit for. I am honored and humbled that you trust Me with your submission and I promise to do My utmost best to show you and help you see it yourself, the remarkable woman you are. We will have our ups and downs I'm sure, as does any relationship, but I am not in this for a short sprint.. more the marathon of life, My love.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for the kind words Mistress. i love the way You worded that..."Not in this for a short sprint...more for the marathon of life." ~Smiles~ And gosh darn it all, i love You too Mistress. ~Giggles~
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