Submission

 

The outsiders looking in on the BDSM community find that submission comes from those that are weak and powerless. Just used for others pleasure to be abused in many ways and then tossed away. The most annoying part of vanillas. Haha. They are so quick to judge others who are active within BDSM.

 

As some would say slaves do not have any rights, but i do believe differently on that. As we do have certain rights...that of course depends on the One that Owns. And the rights we do have will of course be the decision of our Owners. But we are given the right to use a safe word, if we felt it was needed. The right to communicate. Also, we have the right to chose who we belong to. There are hidden rights that slaves do get that most people do not realize. Our submission is ours, to give. It takes a special connection to be able to submit to Someone. But either way that decision is ours.

 

There can be many reasons that people enter the BDSM community. It could be the past and how they were treated as a child, it could be because of bad things happening to them, or it could possibly be that they were "born that way". Could be a mixture of things. So many are also quick to judge on how or why people get into BDSM. There may not be any other reason other then it is how the person feels inside. They could feel the need and desire to serve and submit.

 

Sexual submission, should in my opinion not be considered abuse, or playing "rape" or however people look at it. i find that submitting in anyway, including, sexual submission to not just physical but also mental and emotional stimulation.

 

To ‘give’ myself fully there must be utter trust in my Dominant in order for them to see, feel and experience my submission.  And personally to submit sexually is the greatest gift i can give to Someone, therefore there must be a relationship based on mutual respect, trust and love.